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        <title>My Loved One Is Gone. Why Should I Go On?</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <p>I have had to temporarily delete The Sanctuary Chatroom due to a bug that causes security problems. Hopefully it will be back very soon. -Dave</p> ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ WARM HUGS ON THIS NEW YEAR ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <font face="Verdana" color="#FF00FF" size="4">To any of you hurting with grief as we enter 2009, I give my heart to you, and want you to know that I have
experience with the kind of awful and surreal feelings that can happen at a time when you are mourning someone and the world around you is mostly interested in
having loud parties. That dose not mean I could ever understand or share your feelings, which are unique. But I have been in horrible grief during a New
Year&#39;s Eve, and this made... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ 4 December - THE GATHERING ]]></title>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Question for Board Users About Chat Times ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi Everyone, Members and Visitors Alike,
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We at the Friends Along the Road BBS hope you are enjoying it here, and would appreciate it if you&#39;d give us a moment to comment about our Chat feature.
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The Chatrooms at the Friends Along the Road BBS, as well as at the <a href="http://www.lillipierceandthebigtrip.yuku.com/">Lilli Pierce and the Big Trip
BBS</a>, our sister board, are for any Yuku members to have a safe and comfortable online place to talk about topics such as... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Studs Terkel 8/16/1912 - 10/31/2008 ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Studs Terkel, people-lover, died yesterday at the age of 96. He was a fine author, as well as a pioneer of radio and TV broadcasting. A champion of human
rights, he was fascinated by the stories of every person, and loved interviewing regular people, even if they was strangers he met on the street or subway. He
found great inequities in the US system of privatized health care and championed the cause of universal health care. Studs wrote some important books. When he
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			<description><![CDATA[ <p><u>11-25-09</u></p>

<p>Mica</p>

<p>Dave</p>

<p><u>11-4-09</u>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Wednesday Chats ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Dear Friends,
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Starting tonight, Wednesday, we are having the first of our regular Wednesday Night Chats in the Sanctuary Chat Room, here at the FAR BBS. It has already been
a big success, with my friends Missy (Canada) and Willem (Netherlands) stopping by (5:00 am for Willem...he is asleep again). Giulia has popped in too...
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			<title><![CDATA[ My mom... ]]></title>
			<link>http://friendsalongtheroad.yuku.com/topic/549/t/My-mom-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ ...passed away on August 10th - the holidays were terrible...I feel so empty without her - :*( ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Rules of the Board; Read Before Posting ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <strong>Rules for posting at FRIENDS ALONG THE ROAD:</strong>
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1) No &quot;spamming&quot;.
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2) Do not &quot;flame,&quot; &quot;troll,&quot; insult, or post personal attacks on other posters in your posts or signature lines. Please note that debating
an idea is not attacking a person. If you engage in debate, please do so courteously.
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3) Do not attack members of other boards. They may someday be members here, and it would be nice if we could get along. The other... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Test ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Judy checking in with my new account to see if it works. ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Remembering Asian Tsunami victims ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Today is the third anniversary remembrance of the Asian Tsunami that created death and destruction on a scale we can't even grasp. My heart goes out to all the families and friends of the victims, and of course they are victims too, very much so.<br><br>Our friend Bob Scott of Glasgow, Scotland, lost his nephew Dominic in the Tsunami. Dominic and his girlfriend were both killed. Bob spent many weeks searching through the corpses before he found Dominic, and some time after that, Dominic's... ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ My baby brother ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I have been looking for a support group since losing my brother in March of this year. Unfortunately, there are none in my area. My brother was killed in a car accident just 2 weeks before his 22nd birthday. He had been having seizures. He was on medication to control them, but got in his car anyway. He was only two blocks from Dad's house when, the best we can figure, he had a seizure and wrecked. He was not wearing his seatbelt and was thrown through the windshield about 60 feet. When we... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 21:08:08 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Download high-quality FAR logos here and be a sanctuary! ]]></title>
			<link>http://friendsalongtheroad.yuku.com/topic/365/t/Download-high-quality-FAR-logos-here-and-be-a-sanctuary-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ By downloading, printing, and framing and hanging our Friends Along the Road logos on your doors, office, walls, and windows, you let others know that YOU are a safe haven for them to share grief at the loss of family or friends. Below are links that will allow you to download very high resolution 10&quot; X 6.6&quot; .jpg versions of our logos - both the logo with a banner and the logo without a banner.<br><br>Simply <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 02 Sep 2007 11:43:50 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Visit FAR Store and Help Support Those in Grief ]]></title>
			<link>http://friendsalongtheroad.yuku.com/topic/367/t/Visit-FAR-Store-and-Help-Support-Those-in-Grief.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Visit the <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://www.cafepress.com/farhaven" target="top">FAR Online Store</a><!--EZCODE LINK END-->! Your purchases of shirts, hats, mugs, aprons, teddy bears and more will help provide sanctuary and support for those in grief. <!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><em>Purchases safe and secure.</em><!--EZCODE ITALIC END--><div class='signature'><a href="http://www.friendsalongtheroad.org" target="new"><span style="font-size:xx-small;">Friends Along the... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 26 Aug 2007 18:02:44 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Post-screening in place ]]></title>
			<link>http://friendsalongtheroad.yuku.com/topic/366/t/Post-screening-in-place.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Dear Friends,<br><br>Because the public forums on the FAR BBS have started getting a lot of unsolicited advertising, we have decided to enable the screening feature for each of these forums, which means a public-forum post by a visitor who is an unregistered user of  Ez-Board cannot be read until an admin determines it is safe and then releases it to the general readership. <br><br>I apologize for the inconvenience, but we feel this measure is necessary to protect the integrity of the board... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (David Pierce)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 21 Aug 2007 14:12:21 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Robert C. Spooner ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ On behalf of Friends Along the Road, I extend sympathy and love to the family of Robert Spooner, of Massachusetts, who died recently at the age of 86. His daughter, Jacqueline Martello, is the registered agent in Florida for FAR. Jacqueline is a very kind person, and I am sorry that she and her family are faced with her dad's death. Jacqueline tells me that her dad loved planting tomatoes in the backyard and did it every year except this one, because he was in the hospital. However, his wife... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (David Pierce)</author>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jul 2007 19:52:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ I just lost my dad in may ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi, I just lost my dad in May. He was in perfect health... He had a motorcyle accident and passed instantly. <br><br>I went thru the motions with the funeral, I still fell like I am going thru the motions, but it seems like it isn't real. Is this normal to feel this way. <br><br>I am building him a web site to honor his memory and work on it when I get down, but as Father's day weekend comes up, it makes it hard. <br><br>I am unsure of how to deal with my feelings, I am angry, upset, sad,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jun 2007 12:44:58 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Welcome, Friend! FAR has moved to Colorado! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Friends Along the Road, Inc., has moved from Florida to Colorado, though it will remain a Florida 501 (c)(3) not-for-profit public charity. Even though FAR was started in Florida, because that's where we - David and Judy Pierce, President and Secretary of FAR - were living when our daughter Lilli was killed, it has long been our dream to return to our home state of Colorado.<br><br>Here, FAR hopes to build the first and primary physical FAR Sanctuary to provide comfortable, safe, and caring... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (David Pierce)</author>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2007 22:25:24 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Why is this so hard? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Dear Friends and Family,<br>I am still crying over my mom, she left on Oct 9th.  I just don't understand why I am so upset.  You are supposed to lose your parents, it's the natural order.  But I feel a void within me that nothing will fill.  I just don't know.<br><br>I'm on anti-depressants and they just don't help.  I am sad.  I cry a lot.  I want my momma back!  I took care of her for almost 5 years, I told her I loved her every single day.  I treasured my time with her.  And now I miss her... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2007 04:52:21 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Prepare for death- Brian's story ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Hi everyone,<br>I am posting on behalf of my adopted mom, Ann.  She knows better than anyone the grief of losing a child.<br><br>Ann had Brian, who died at the age of 7 in 1987.  Brian had a long illness (lukemia) and knew he was dying.  He was excited to die.  His main concern was preparing all those around him for his death.  He mainly focused on his mother, who he knew would be lost without him.  He actually told her that God said he would be her Angel, that he would be allowed to contact... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 14 Jan 2007 07:55:53 GMT</pubDate>
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